Set the scene: Where does your girl get off the most? Is it hooking up in her parents house with the threat of getting caught or is it your girl giving you head in the local mall parking lot? These locations are important because they build excitement and make sex more exciting.

Talk Dirty: Does your girl or guy like to be called a whore or stud? Does she like her hair grabbed hard or does he like you to stick a finger in his ass while you blow him? Accentuate the situation by verbalizing your feelings. Say how much you want to drink his cum or lick her ass. These verbal expressions speak to your partners emotions at a higher level. Believe me when I say they will love it and if they don't they will tell you.

Using Toys: Guys, don't be threatened by a nice sized dildo or vibrator, they are made to help. Sometimes, women need a little extra help in achieving orgasm. Next, time you are going down on her girl or guy choose a small vibrator and place it on her asshole. You don't have to bury it for it to feel good. Sometimes, just the head vibrating on the sensitive nerves of her ass is enough to put the person over the edge. Safety Tip: Also, remember that anytime you use a toy in or near a persons ass, you must wash it thoroughly before using it again with the same person or a new person.

Also, guys next time you are doing your girl doggie style, take one of her smaller vibrators or dildos and lube it up real good and work it into her ass. I've chatted with allot of girls and they all say they like the feeling or both your cock and the dildo and the way it fill them up. Remember to get your partners permission before attempting to still anything in their ass.

Girls, toys are not just for your pleasure. It may take some prodding but guys like ass play. They like to be licked, fingered and sometimes a small vibrator works wonders. Make sure you go real slow, use allot of lubricant and get your man's permission. The last thing you want to do is slam a vibrator in his ass when he doesn't know its coming. Talk to him in advance, let him know you want to please him.

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